Saturday, June 17, 2017

The possibilities

Life is full of unexpected surprises, you get to know many different type of people . Yet to meet in reality and meet in reality or in chatroom .
Prior to your meet up, you both had pleasant conversation , bit make the effort and time to meet up; after meet up, the friendship dying off or continuous spark on.
A friend of mine, a Singaporean DC who based in Dubai , we knew each other from an app, he make it to a point flew in to KL for a catch up, we had a pleasant night , after that the conversation seems dying off.
Another friend LYM based in SG, he boarded the plane in last minute decision just wanted to give me  a surprise and meet me for few hours before heading back to SG for meeting. Such little thought and gesture were touched my heart , but it's too soon to tell if a fiend who always busy with work and not responding in time as in persistency and consistency , I doubt he could make it to the end of the relationship.
Either friendship nor relationship , you require both parties time and effort to sustain it.
As if you are not the priority and just an optional, pointless you keep up the efforts.
Some friendships just effortless and always be there.
Be real, he just not into you.
Another 3 SG friends will make it to an extend , inform me in advance he will be coming to kl for meeting or business trip or leisure , to pre-book my schedule for meet up, really appreciate it.
As such, you realised that the differences of treatment and priority.
Be it , if a person would like to stay in your life, they will be.