The little things

 Chivalry never dies.. 

I love being pampered, been taking care of by someone, showered me with tender loving care with some gestures , even some small little things make the impact and make the difference. 

Mr. A, unexpected meet up via Wechat chatting app, cheeky conversation and laughter. He make me feels i am a lady, a little girl , a little princess. He will wait for me, hold the door, portioning the dishes for me, my plate always fill with yummy food, i told him i love to eat prawns but dislike to peel, he will take note, always order prawns for me, peeled all the prawns and feed me. Make times to catch up over dinner or drinks, make times to reply my messages. Walked me to my car, ensure i am safe all the times. Bring me to sampling delicious food, cheer me up when i was down. Surprise me with a little gift - a plus toy that i mentioned before. He paid attention to the details. Gimme huggies whenever we bid farewell.

Mr. M, a friend knew from Wechat chatting app as well, a charming looking one. We lost contact for 2 years, then we keep in touch again. He changed his ways of treating me, may be could be better.  He make times to meet up, bought me snacks sometimes, make efforts to keep in touch. Allowed me to access to his personal info, handles his errands and personal matters. We spending some quality times together, he will slice and cut the apples, making drinks for me, hold my hand to cross the road, walked me to my car.. those little things actually warm my heart. Sang me birthday song during my birthday. 

Mr. T, an old friend for more than a decade, knew from a forum. A caring person who always showering me his gentleman manners and gesture. Treat me meals, wait for me during events, walked me to car, giving me road directions, car pooling, paying for my parking, got me souvenir whenever he travels. So sweet of him. Organized my birthday party during my birthday years. 

Those little things ...uncountable... actually make me remember piece and pieces.. melt my heart indeed. 

Waiting for Apple cutting

During this MCO, we still care for each other.

Brought his grocery , cooked beef steak as his dinner , replenished mixed nuts for him.

Unexpectedly , he fed me after cutting the steak for the first bite . *blush*

After dinner , he offered to cut apples for me , wow ! Why not ?

I will be the lucky girl waiting for my apples while watching him from behind , he was peeling and cutting the apples. In few minutes later I got my apples nicely served by him. 

So sweet of him ! 

Sometimes , a little gesture , a little thing do counts ! That draw a smile on my face ! Thank you ! 

sleeping beast

We were watching tv while randomly chating, after while I stopped responding as I wanted to concentrate on tv screen , suddenly I noticed why he became quiet , haha ! He fell asleep like a sleeping beast .

有时候，我们可以一起享受彼此的陪伴，好好的休息一下，看看节目，聊聊天，静静的看着你睡着了。

认真的他真好看

He offered sweet papaya and I wanted to eat , so he sliced and cut the papaya for me. Just like a little girl sitting there patiently waiting for her food.
It’s a blessing !
Feeling good to get pampered by him.

surprise impromptu visit

It gonna be a long weekend due to public holiday , I have some appointments and errands to do. Spent my whole Saturday for car servicing, finally got all sorted out , my baby car is riding smoothly now.

Due to unforeseen parts need to be changed , it jeopardised my appointment with my buddy , it was deferred to late evening after car wash.

Had a good dinner at buddy place , sampling sarawak kolo Mee, soju and durian cheese cake, after filled up my stomach time to head back home,

In the morning ,K texts me checking on my long weekend plan , I shared my weekend plan with him. While I was driving K texting me told me he is in KL would love to meet up. I asked why so impromptu? He told me due to traffic jam he was late arrived. I thought he has meeting agenda in town .

After few minutes consideration , I decided drove to town to catch up with K in wee hours. 

We had good chat before hit the sack, next day morning woke up becoz of nice aromatic hot coffee in the room, earlier morning bed side breakfast was served upon open my eyes, how sweet is it ? 

We had our breakie and watching CNN news, it was short catch up but a good time to remember. Bid farewell with hugs and kisses , till we meet again ! 

After that K told me the reason of this surprise impromptu, coz K can’t make it for next month meet up & feel guilty , so make it up for me to surprise me with such last minute planning. 

The possibilities

Life is full of unexpected surprises, you get to know many different type of people . Yet to meet in reality and meet in reality or in chatroom .
Prior to your meet up, you both had pleasant conversation , bit make the effort and time to meet up; after meet up, the friendship dying off or continuous spark on.
A friend of mine, a Singaporean DC who based in Dubai , we knew each other from an app, he make it to a point flew in to KL for a catch up, we had a pleasant night , after that the conversation seems dying off.
Another friend LYM based in SG, he boarded the plane in last minute decision just wanted to give me  a surprise and meet me for few hours before heading back to SG for meeting. Such little thought and gesture were touched my heart , but it's too soon to tell if a fiend who always busy with work and not responding in time as in persistency and consistency , I doubt he could make it to the end of the relationship.
Either friendship nor relationship , you require both parties time and effort to sustain it.
As if you are not the priority and just an optional, pointless you keep up the efforts.
Some friendships just effortless and always be there.
Be real, he just not into you.
Another 3 SG friends will make it to an extend , inform me in advance he will be coming to kl for meeting or business trip or leisure , to pre-book my schedule for meet up, really appreciate it.
As such, you realised that the differences of treatment and priority.
Be it , if a person would like to stay in your life, they will be.

你的肩膀和胸膛

他的背影

While waiting for my coffee 

While waiting for my cream puff 

While forcing to do colouring 

He is cute but dangerous

Ladies, please be mindful and careful if you bounce to this man by chance . He appears cute , sweet and quite good looking , hailed from Penang, in IT industry, travel with a Volvo car in black. He later will turns up looking for sex to satisfy his personal urge and then will cut you off from his contact. 

Crazy meet

It was awesome to hitch a ride with superbike , adrenaline rush . 

Overcome the fear of speed and cornering divider. 

Plus went up sky roof walk over the glass panel without fear and blink my eyes! 

Thanks for courage and fearless energy !

You are good in many ways , but ...

Depression

“Many people who suffer from depression report feeling as though they’ve lost the ability to imagine a happy future, or remember a happy past. Often they don’t realize they’re suffering from a treatable illness, and seeking help may not even enter their mind. Emotions and even physical pain can become unbearable. They don’t want to die, but it’s the only way they feel their pain will end.”

Life is full of choices

Choose Life. Choose a job. Choose a career. Choose a family. Choose a fucking big television, choose washing machines, cars, compact disc players and electrical tin openers. Choose good health, low cholesterol, and dental insurance. Choose fixed interest mortage repayments. Choose a starter home. Choose your friends. Choose leisurewear and matching luggage. Choose a three-piece suite on hire purchase in a range of fucking fabrics. Choose DIY and wondering who the fuck you are on a Sunday morning. Choose sitting on that couch watching mind-numbing, spirit-crushing game shows, stuffing fucking junk food into your mouth. Choose rotting away at the end of it all, pishing your last in a miserable home, nothing more than an embarrassment to the selfish, fucked up brats you spawned to replace yourself. Choose your future. Choose life.

 

 

 

 

 John Hodge

Men are like...???

1.  Men are like ..... Laxatives ... They irritate the shit out of you.
2.  Men are like ..... Bananas ... The older they get, the less firm they are.
3.  Men are like ..... Weather .. Nothing can be done to change them.
4.  Men are like ..... Blenders .. You need One, but you're not quite sure why.
5.  Men are like ..... Chocolate Bars .. Sweet, smooth, & they usually head right for your hips.
6.  Men are like ..... Commercials ... You can't believe a word they say.
7.  Men are like ..... Department Stores .. Their clothes are always 1/2 off.
8.  Men are like ..... Government Bonds .. They take soooooooo long to mature.
9.  Men are like ..... Mascara ... They usually run at the first sign of emotion.
10. Men are like ..... Popcorn ... They satisfy you, but only for a little while.
11. Men are like ..... Snowstorms . You never know when they're coming, how many inches you'll
                            get or how long it will last.
12. Men are like ..... Lava Lamps .. Fun to look at, but not very bright.
13. Men are like ..... Parking Spots ...... All the good ones are taken, the rest are handicapped.

To all the remarkable women you know, as well as to any understanding good- natured, fun kinda guys you might be lucky enough to know !!!!!!!!!

One Thing ~ By One Direction

"One Thing" [Liam] I've tried playing it cool But when I'm looking at you I can’t ever be brave 'Cause you make my heart race [Harry] Shot me out of the sky You're my kryptonite You keep making me weak Yeah, frozen and can't breathe [Zayn] Something’s gotta give now 'Cause I’m dying just to make you see That I need you here with me now 'Cause you've got that one thing [All - Chorus] So get out, get out, get out of my head And fall into my arms instead I don't, I don't, don't know what it is But I need that one thing And you've got that one thing [Niall] Now I'm climbing the walls But you don't notice at all That I'm going out of my mind All day and all night [Louis] Something’s gotta give now 'Cause I'm dying just to know your name And I need you here with me now 'Cause you've got that one thing [All - Chorus] So get out, get out, get out of my head And fall into my arms instead I don't, I don't, don't know what it is But I need that one thing So get out, get out, get out of my mind And come on, come into my life I don't, I don't, don't know what it is But I need that one thing And you've got that one thing Woah-oh-oh-oh Woah-oh-oh-oh Woah-oh-oh-oh [Harry] You've got that one thing [Liam] Get out, get out, get out of my head And fall into my arms instead [All - Chorus] So get out, get out, get out of my head And fall into my arms instead I don't, I don't, don't know what it is But I need that one thing So get out, get out, get out of my mind And come on, come into my life I don't, I don't, don't know what it is But I need that one thing Yeah, you've got that one thing

Changes for good?

from 2010 to 2011, did i ever change from bad to good, good to great? i doubt. after being a few of relationships which doesn't work out, end up with betrayed feeling and broken heart, i fear to fall in love again. Being single for 5 years over, sometimes i feel good to have all the times and freedom for myself, albeit it's quite sad to see not with anyone (occasionally), but i feel bliss and grateful i still have my beloved parents and buddies who being so supportive by my side along my life path. Sometimes being single is better and happy instead with a wrong person, however i don't mind to reconsider to be with someone who worth for me to spend times together and change my mind to settle down, till now i still yet meet someone right for me. Believe the right person will come soon? It's called FLIRTING if you're in a relationship. But, it's called BEING FRIENDLY if you're SINGLE. Look back 2010, i got my 2 teeth crown done, my deepest gratitude to my parents who helped me for this and keep urged me to get it done before too late. I am happy with the new look and nice teeth. Being windows user for more than 20 years, finally i decided to make a change, i bought a macbook from Apple authorized store, extremely excited for my new toy onboard ! dare to make a change! i truly in love with my macbook white! After years, i finally bought my own roof with great help from my parents. Without papa and mama, i am nobody! I used 1 month to search for units and viewing houses,apartment and condo, spent 3 months over to get legal documents signed, sealed and delivered. I can't wait to move in to my apartment by year end! wish me abundance of good luck! I took up life insurance classes and sat for the test, finally got the license done! Going through the training, facing challenges to accept objections from friends and strangers, needs loads of courage to develop myself, to change my attitude, my personality, polish up skills to do better!! TRUST myself can DO IT! please grant me strength, luck and positive energy!! I want to be a successful person in life, to make myself a better person, be happy, be kind, be healthy, be wealthy!! DARE TO MAKE A CHANGE IN LIFE! WELCOME MANY OPPORTUNITIES COME TO MY LIFE!

SE7EN COMEBACK STAGE - Digital Bounce + Better Togetger

Wow! Finally Se7en is back!!! Love his live performance on stage, can't move my eyes off from the screen! ENJOY!

SS501 - Finally come back 2010

I think i am under the spell of SS501, they are sizzling hot, can't get enough of them!

Finally they are making a come back in 2010 with their latest album & songs!

1 of the Hit Song "Love Ya" was released on 24 May which's an awesome clip that you will repeating watch over again and again! :p

They are absolutely *yummilicious* Love their dance steps and movement! wow!!

Simply love their live performance on the stage too, even though i don't understand korean language, but i still love to listen to their songs! SS501, keep up the good work!!

就想赖着你

Lately, i watched this taiwanese drama and failling in love with this song :)






就想赖着你
演唱:言承旭

有点拽
有点坏
你的style 很难猜
不太符合观众的期待
oh你生气
你耍赖
真性情无人替代
多么被 你万种姿态
你看那北极的白雪皑皑
都竟已被你化开
奔流的没有阻碍
心情低当时为我赶走阴霾
疗愈了我的心痛
遗忘过去伤害
oh 女孩
喜欢你的花裙摆
甜蜜告白别见外
你的笑像春风滋养盆栽
只想黏着你一直爱
oh 女孩
想和你一起看海
赖着你就像难搞的小孩
喜欢你白雪皑皑
只想对你傻傻依赖
不偏不移
不疾不徐
爱神的箭穿起我你
寻寻觅觅
扑朔迷离
真爱原来就在这里
相偎相依
相知相惜
傻傻的就想赖着你
不要怀疑
真爱无敌

Be my guest!

YL: Hi there! I saw your msg in facebook. I was just kidding with you. you no need to be so serious right?I try to praise you in another way. Haiz, nevermind, just wanna let you know i never have the intention to criticize you.

JC: Yeah, it aint funny at all! be my guest, please fuck off!

"YL: Joann, I think someone have to ban you from using FB, coz you make all of us hungry!"

Mind you, I am a blunt and sensitive person. If you do not know me, you may think i am a person who hard to approach, harsh and mean. Somehow, i do have my soft spot and being selective to my circle of friends. It depends who i am dealing with and the situation, i needless to be there to please everyone but i do have my own verdict and point of view, i never ask you to agree and accept it, i just share piece of my mind. I being nice to you it doesn't mean i like you, but when you mess with me, sorry to tell you that please fuck off! I do not have time to entertain you if you are an obnoxious person and always being busy body want to know my personal life. Please mind your own business!

Last month, YL who's my ex colleague who always think of herself is a princess and she loves to gossip and dig others personal life stories. I hardly talk to her, she msg me in MSN, i just being polite to reply her. She told me please get a life and get a man to take care of me, excuse me, i know you just married and gave birth to a baby girl, it doesn't you need to brat about our new weds life and motherhood to me. I rules my own life and i am totally in-charge of what i've done , what i am going to do and bear all the consequences. Please do not come here seems you know me for whole life and give me a lecture how to live my life to fullest. Perhaps i do need a man to enhance my life as a compliment material. But, Hey! i still yet to meet any Mr. Right, it doesn't mean i don't wish to settle down with someone. I am happy who i am right now even i am not a fucking rich person.

Today you just being irritating bitch and hit my nerve to the maximum. Pardon me, if you do not love to view my photos posted up in FB, please do me a favor, you do reserves your right not to view my photos and should i ban you from viewing any photos from my albums? Yes! Be my guest! Good news to you, i've barred your account and email address in my FB, so save your energy and my time to battle with you.
"YL: Joann, I think someone have to ban you from using FB, coz you make all of us hungry!"

Oh yes! you came to MSN left me a nice message. Yes, i am a sensitive person, i do take things seriously, but only to you! BITCH!